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Wanna know the #1 reason for unhappiness?

Have you ever wondered why not everyone is happy and at peace? Unless you’re an analytical nerd like me you probably haven’t… but seriously, now that I mention it, isn’t it a curious mystery? Why in the world isn’t everyone walking around smiling and overflowing with peace?  Everyone wants to be happy don’t they?  So […]

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Karma is your friend… If you make it so

We’ve all heard of karma…  Whatever you do comes back to you…. You reap what you sow. Typically when we think of karma and refer to examples of it, we think of it from a negative perspective.  We think of the person who stole something eventually losing something of value.  The person who cheats on […]

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What If You Fall?

Everything thing can change in an instant. Scary isn’t it??…. or is it? Well, it depends on how you look at it. With a mind geared toward expecting the worst, yes, its very scary.  Many of us are in the habit of expecting the worse. What if it doesn’t work? What if she/he doesn’t like […]

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Reconnect to what matters

As we move through life, often in a swift manner, we lose some things along the way.  Some are bad habits, people who aren’t good for us, old ways of thinking which could be considered “good loses.”  But often we move so quickly that we also lose touch with things that matter. As you enter […]

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Forgiveness of self – A prerequisite to healing and peace

We must forgive ourselves. Self-forgiveness is just as essential as the forgiveness of others, if not more.  If you feel you have fault in the fact that you experienced your trauma, take a closer look. While there are examples in which that may be true (i.e. you were at fault in a car accident), there […]

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