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Wanna know the #1 reason for unhappiness?

Have you ever wondered why not everyone is happy and at peace? Unless you’re an analytical nerd like me you probably haven’t… but seriously, now that I mention it, isn’t it a curious mystery? Why in the world isn’t everyone walking around smiling and overflowing with peace?  Everyone wants to be happy don’t they?  So […]

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Your biggest problem isn’t what you think it is

Each of us has had our share of hard times both past and present… financial struggles broken relationships with family members emotional pain from past experiences Understandably we ponder these issues searching for solutions to address them. These aren’t our biggest problems though… Our biggest challenges are the ones we don’t actually even have. Many of […]

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What If You Fall?

Everything thing can change in an instant. Scary isn’t it??…. or is it? Well, it depends on how you look at it. With a mind geared toward expecting the worst, yes, its very scary.  Many of us are in the habit of expecting the worse. What if it doesn’t work? What if she/he doesn’t like […]

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“It’s COMPLICATED”  …Facebook status for relationships. Maybe you didn’t actually select it but in your mind you thought, “Man!  My relationship is so COMPLICATED.” For some of us, if asked, that’s how we’d label our lives… COMPLICATED. Someone asks about your life as a parent…COMPLICATED. Your efforts trying to parent your child whose mother/father you’re […]

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Survivor To Aliver – The Concept – From “You Survived… Now What?”

The Survivor To Aliver concept was inspired by my personal journey of survival after being raped as a high school junior by my teacher. Following an eleven month process in the court system to bring him to justice (which didn’t look too much like justice after all was said and done), I continued life not […]

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Your story is a gift – Please share

I’m looking for people who are willing to share their story to be highlighted in a weekly feature I will be releasing soon called “Aliver Chronicles.”  My goal is to share the journeys of those who have experienced abuse, war, rape, divorce, financial devastation, loss of a loved one, and any other challenging life experience […]

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