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What If You Fall?

- Jun• 04•15 Written By: blog

Everything thing can change in an instant.

Scary isn’t it??…. or is it?

Well, it depends on how you look at it.

With a mind geared toward expecting the worst, yes, its very scary.  Many of us are in the habit of expecting the worse.

What if it doesn’t work?

What if she/he doesn’t like me?

What if I don’t get the job?

What if things never get better?

These are fair questions… What if all of those things do in fact happen?

what if i fall

But what if they don’t?

What if it does work?

What if she/he does like you?

What if you do get the job?

What if things do get better?

The truth is that we never know what’s going to happen so with that said we have two choices:

1. Allow fear to dictate our lives, paralyzing us to a point where we do nothing in an effort to avoid the negative what ifs (which actually doesn’t work even though we think it does).

2. Move forward with excitement, willing to take risks with an eye on the infinite list of super-awesome-wonderful things that just might actually happen.

Either way, we don’t control anything but ourselves and either way, something is going to happen.  Every day something is going to happen… even if we do nothing.

So why not default to the positive what ifs?  Why not focus on what we want and do everything in our power to put ourselves in position to have all the greatest what ifs of the world happen to us?

Start paying attention to how you think.  Are you a negative what if’er?  Each time a negative what if scenario pops in your mind challenge yourself to consider the positive side to that what if.

What if you fly?

Love and Light

 

Elizabeth

#Aliver